22 The same night he got up and took his two wives, his two maids, and his eleven children and crossed the ford of the Jabbok. 23 He took them and sent them across the stream, and likewise everything that he had. 24 Jacob was left alone, and a man wrestled with him until daybreak. 25 When the man saw that he did not prevail against Jacob, he struck him on the hip socket, and Jacob’s hip was put out of joint as he wrestled with him. 26 Then he said, “Let me go, for the day is breaking.” But Jacob said, “I will not let you go, unless you bless me.” 27 So he said to him, “What is your name?” And he said, “Jacob.” 28 Then the manbsaid, “You shall no longer be called Jacob, but Israel, for you have striven with God and with humans and have prevailed.” 29 Then Jacob asked him, “Please tell me your name.” But he said, “Why is it that you ask my name?” And there he blessed him. 30 So Jacob called the place Peniel, saying, “For I have seen God face to face, yet my life is preserved.” 31 The sun rose upon him as he passed Penuel, limping because of his hip. (Genesis 32:22-31 NRSV)
Dear Friend, blessings upon blessings be with you on this Wednesday! May graciousness bring you joy and peace in all you expect or expected to do. Be a person of love and compassion to all people.
There's something about this story that gets under your skin the more you sit with it. Jacob is alone at night by the ford of the Jabbok — and "alone" here carries real weight, because Jacob has just sent everyone and everything he owns across the river ahead of him. His wives, his children, his servants, his flocks — all of it is on the other side. He is stripped down to just himself, and that might be exactly the point. Because what's waiting for him on the other side of the river is his brother Esau, whom he hasn't seen in twenty years, not since he cheated him out of his birthright and his blessing and then ran for his life. Jacob has spent two decades building a new life, acquiring wealth, becoming successful by every outward measure. And now the past is catching up with him, and there is nowhere left to run.
And then, in the middle of that night, a man appears and wrestles with him until dawn.
We are given no introduction, no context, no explanation. Just — a man, and a struggle, and the darkness of the night, and it goes on until the breaking of the day. This stranger is clearly no ordinary opponent. When he cannot overpower Jacob, he touches the socket of Jacob's hip and puts it out of joint with a single touch — which tells you immediately that the limitation on the struggle has not been his, but a choice. He could have ended this at any point. He didn't, which means the wrestling itself is something He wants to happen.
Jacob figures this out somewhere in the night, and when the stranger asks to be let go because the dawn is breaking, Jacob says something remarkable: "I will not let you go unless you bless me" (Genesis 32:26, NRSV). He doesn't know exactly who he's holding onto. But he knows it's someone worth holding onto. And in that moment, the man who has spent his whole life grabbing — grabbing the heel at birth, grabbing the birthright with a bowl of stew, grabbing the blessing with a disguise and his mother's help — is grabbing for something entirely different. Not an advantage over his brother. Not a material gain. A blessing from the only source that actually matters.
The stranger asks him his name. And when Jacob says it — "Jacob" — he's saying more than just a name. In Hebrew, Jacob means something like "heel grabber" or "supplanter," the one who takes what belongs to someone else. He is, in a single word, confessing his whole history. And the stranger immediately renames him: "You shall no longer be called Jacob, but Israel, for you have striven with God and with humans, and have prevailed" (Genesis 32:28). Israel — one who strives with God, or perhaps one whom God strives with. The new name doesn't erase the old story. It reframes it entirely. The grabbing and the striving and the wrestling that seemed like character flaws turn out to have been, in God's hands, the very things He was working with all along.
Jacob asks the stranger His name, and the stranger deflects the question — which is its own kind of answer. The name of God is not something that can be pinned down or possessed. But Jacob, limping now where his hip has been put out of joint, names the place Peniel: the face of God. "For I have seen God face to face," he says, "and yet my life is preserved" (Genesis 32:30). He's not walking away unchanged. He's walking away limping, permanently marked by the encounter, carrying the evidence of it in his body for the rest of his life. And that limp, I think, is not a defeat. It is the most important thing Jacob carries across the Jabbok — the physical reminder that he has been in a place where only God could have met him.
We all have a Jabbok. There's a night, sometimes more than one night, where everything has been sent on ahead and we are alone with what we've been avoiding, and something meets us in the dark that we didn't see coming. It might feel like struggle. It might feel like opposition. It might take until morning before we realize that what we've been fighting with is actually the very grace of God, refusing to let us pass through unchanged, determined to give us a new name before the sun comes up. Jesus Himself wrestled with the weight of the cup in Gethsemane and came out the other side transformed, ready to carry what was coming. The Spirit who raised Him and who dwells in us is the same Spirit who meets us in the night wrestling — not to harm us, but to bless us, not to break us, but to rename us.
Hold on. Don't let go. The blessing is coming with the morning.
PRAYER: Loving Lord, meet us at our own Jabbok and wrestle with us until we stop running and receive the new name and the blessing only You can give. This we pray in Christ Jesus' strong name, amen.
Have a great and blessed day in the Lord! OUR CALL TO ACTION: Name the Jabbok you've been avoiding — the struggle, the confrontation, the night you keep putting off — and choose today to stop running and let God meet you there.
I love you and I thank God for you! You matter to God and you matter to me!
Let's win the world with love for Jesus Christ!
Pastor Eradio Valverde, Jr.






