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8 Praise our God, all peoples, let the sound of his praise be heard; 9 he has preserved our lives and kept our feet from slipping. 10 For you, God, tested us; you refined us like silver. 11 You brought us into prison and laid burdens on our backs. 12 You let people ride over our heads; we went through fire and water, but you brought us to a place of abundance. 13 I will come to your temple with burnt offerings and fulfill my vows to you— 14 vows my lips promised and my mouth spoke when I was in trouble. 15 I will sacrifice fat animals to you and an offering of rams; I will offer bulls and goats. 16 Come and hear, all you who fear God; let me tell you what he has done for me. 17 I cried out to him with my mouth; his praise was on my tongue. 18 If I had cherished sin in my heart, the Lord would not have listened; 19 but God has surely listened and has heard my prayer. 20 Praise be to God, who has not rejected my prayer or withheld his love from me! (Psalm 66:8-20)
Dear Friend, praise God from Whom all blessings flow! Please indulge a proud grandpa, but last night our firstborn grandchild, SaraĆ Evangelina Cortez, daughter of Eric and SaraĆ Cortez, led her team to her university's first National Championship in e-sports (The game they played is Marvel Rivals). It was a great game against Oklahoma City University, a Methodist school no less. We are so proud of our baby girl and can't wait to see her this weekend when she comes home for the summer. Prayers for her dad's safe trip to Portland to pick her up and return home.
I wish every mother reading or watching this, a very Happy Mother's Day! May God bless you and all women who loving share their love with the children in their lives. Yours is a blessed journey of faith!
There is a particular kind of song that only people who have been through something can sing. Not the song of the untested, the comfortable, or the sheltered — but the song that rises from the throat of someone who has walked through fire and water and come out the other side still standing, still praising, still here.
Psalm 66 is that kind of song.
And on a day when we honor mothers, it strikes me as exactly the right text — because motherhood, in all its beauty and cost and complexity, is exactly that kind of journey. It is not only the joy of first steps and birthday cakes and graduation mornings. It is also the sleepless nights and the desperate prayers and the seasons when love costs more than you thought you had left to give. It is fire and water. It is burden and breakthrough. It is the long walk from the hard place to the place of abundance, with God’s hand holding the whole of it.
Today we are not going to offer a tidy tribute to motherhood. We are going to do something more honest and more hopeful than that. We are going to sit with a psalm that has room for the whole story — the testing and the tears and the triumph — and let it speak to every woman in this room, wherever you find yourself on the journey.
Whether you are a mother of young children, exhausted and tender. Whether you are a mother of grown children, proud and still praying. Whether you are a woman who longed to be a mother and that prayer has not been answered the way you hoped. Whether you lost your mother, and today is tender in ways that are hard to explain. Whether you are a spiritual mother — someone who has poured herself into other people’s children with the same ferocity as any birth mother. This psalm has room for you.
Let us read it together and hear what it says.
Tested Like Silver
The psalmist does not begin with hardship. He begins with praise — a great, communal, let-everyone-hear-it praise that rises from a people who have survived something together. But then, quickly, he tells us why the praise is necessary: “For you, God, tested us; you refined us like silver.”
Refined like silver. It is a beautiful and brutal image. In the ancient world, silver was purified through an intense process of heat — the ore melted down in a crucible, the dross rising to the surface to be skimmed away, the process repeated until the silversmith could see his own reflection in the liquid metal. The test was not the enemy of the silver. The test was what made the silver silver.
The psalmist continues, almost cataloguing the weight of what God allowed: “You brought us into prison and laid burdens on our backs. You let people ride over our heads; we went through fire and water.”
There is something startling about the grammar here. He says you — you brought us, you let this happen, you allowed the fire and the water. The psalmist does not pretend that God was absent from the hard seasons or that the difficulty arrived from somewhere outside God’s awareness. He holds the tension that the people of God have always had to hold: that the testing came, that it was real and heavy and long, and that God was present in every moment of it, working toward something.
Many mothers know this grammar. They have prayed through seasons that did not resolve quickly, held children through suffering they could not fix, carried burdens that no one else could see or fully understand. And some of them have had to learn — slowly, painfully, without neat answers — that the fire they were walking through was not evidence of God’s abandonment. It was evidence of something being forged.
The silversmith image from Malachi and from this psalm suggests that God does not leave the crucible unattended. Ancient silversmiths held the metal in the flame and watched it. They knew the refining was complete not by a timer, but by the moment they could see their own reflection. Perhaps part of the purpose of the testing is that we become, through it, a clearer image of the one who holds us in the fire.
We Went Through — But We Came Out
The pivot in this psalm is one of the most important two-letter words in Scripture: but.
“We went through fire and water, but you brought us to a place of abundance.”
Not around the fire. Not spared from the water. Through. The preposition matters enormously. The promise of God in Scripture is rarely the promise of exemption from difficulty. It is the promise of accompaniment through it, and emergence on the other side. We went through — and then we came out.
The phrase “place of abundance” is sometimes translated “a wealthy place” or “a place of refreshment” — a place where the parched and burdened finally find relief and fullness. It is the language of the desert traveler arriving at water. Of the laboring woman finally holding the child she has carried. Of the grieving heart discovering, after a long winter, that something green is growing again.
For the mothers in this room who are still in the fire — still in the middle of the hard season, still waiting for the but — this word comes as both promise and anchor. The story is not finished. The fire is not the final word. The one who allowed the testing is also the one who determines when it is complete, and who walks you out the other side into the place of abundance.
And for those who have already come through — who can look back on a season of fire and recognize, with the clarity that only distance provides, that something was being refined and not destroyed — the psalm calls you to do what the psalmist does: tell someone. Come and hear, all you who fear God. Let me tell you what he has done for me.
The testimony of a woman who has been through something and come out the other side praising God is one of the most powerful forces in the life of any community of faith. It is not triumphalism. It is not the pretense that the fire was not hot. It is the hard-won, honest, credible witness of someone who can say: I went through, and I am still here, and God did not let me go.
I Cried Out — And He Listened
The psalm shifts in its final movement from the communal to the deeply personal. The psalmist steps out of the “we” of the congregation and into the “I” of his own story. “I cried out to him with my mouth; his praise was on my tongue.” And then the confession that is at the heart of all honest prayer: “Come and hear, all you who fear God; let me tell you what he has done for me.”
The word for “cried out” here carries the weight of urgency — it is not a quiet, composed petition. It is the prayer of someone in extremity, someone whose need has outrun their composure. And the psalmist is not embarrassed by it. He broadcasts it. Come hear what happened when I cried out.
Mothers know this kind of prayer. It is the 3 a.m. prayer when a child is sick and the fever will not break. It is the prayer in the hospital corridor, or the school parking lot, or the bathroom floor when the marriage is falling apart and the children do not know yet. It is the prayer that has no words left — only the sound of a need too large for language.
And the psalmist says: God heard it. “God has surely listened and has heard my prayer.”
The surely is doing significant work in that sentence. It is not casual. It has the quality of someone who was not always certain in the middle of the waiting, but who can now say — looking back, with the whole story visible — surely. He was there. He heard it. The prayer did not rise into an empty sky. It was received.
And then the psalm ends with what may be the most quietly extraordinary line in the entire passage: “Praise be to God, who has not rejected my prayer or withheld his love from me.”
Not rejected my prayer. Not withheld his love. These words are written by someone who, at some point, feared both of those things were happening. Who sat in the silence of an unanswered prayer and wondered if the silence meant rejection. Who carried the weight of a difficult season and wondered if it meant God’s love had reached its limit.
It had not. It does not. It will not.
The love of God is not a resource that runs dry under the pressure of your need. It is not rationed, not exhausted by repeated requests, not conditional on your performance in the hard seasons. The psalmist ends his song here because there is nowhere better to end: the love was not withheld. That is the whole testimony. That is the entire point. Whatever else the fire took, it did not take that.
For Reflection
On a day that can carry so many different weights — gratitude and grief, celebration and longing, joy and the ache of what is absent — Psalm 66 offers us something more honest than a greeting card and more durable than sentiment. It offers us a framework for the whole of the maternal journey, held within the faithfulness of God.
To the mother who is in the fire right now: you are seen. The testing is real, and it is heavy, and God has not left the room. He is the silversmith watching the crucible, working toward something in you that you cannot yet see.
To the mother who has come through: your testimony is a gift. The story of your survival, told honestly and with the fingerprints of God visible on it, is one of the most powerful things you own. Tell it to someone who needs to hear that the fire does not have the final word.
To the woman for whom today is complicated — whose experience of motherhood has included loss, or longing, or a grief that doesn’t have a simple name: the psalmist’s God is large enough for your full story, not just the parts that fit neatly on a card. You are not outside the frame of this psalm. You are in it.
And to everyone in this room, whatever your story: the love of God has not been withheld from you. It was not withheld in the hard seasons. It is not withheld today. The one who preserved your life, who kept your feet from slipping, who walked with you through fire and water — that God is here. And the sound of his praise is worth letting be heard.
PRAYER: Lord, for every mother in this room who has been through fire and water, and for every woman carrying a weight only you can see, we praise you that your love has never been withheld and your ear has never been closed to our crying out. Amen.
Have a great and blessed day in the Lord! OUR CALL TO ACTION: Before this day is over, tell one person — a mother, a daughter, a friend — the honest story of a season when God brought you through, and let your testimony be the gift you give today.
I love you and I thank God for you! You matter to God and you matter to me! Praise be to God, who has not rejected my prayer or withheld his love from me. — Psalm 66:20
Pastor Eradio Valverde, Jr.
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