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13 But we do not want you to be uninformed, brothers and sisters, about those who have died, so that you may not grieve as others do who have no hope. 14 For since we believe that Jesus died and rose again, even so, through Jesus, God will bring with him those who have died. 15 For this we declare to you by the word of the Lord, that we who are alive, who are left until the coming of the Lord, will by no means precede those who have died. 16 For the Lord himself, with a cry of command, with the archangel’s call and with the sound of God’s trumpet, will descend from heaven, and the dead in Christ will rise first. 17 Then we who are alive, who are left, will be caught up in the clouds together with them to meet the Lord in the air, and so we will be with the Lord forever. 18 Therefore encourage one another with these words. (1 Thessalonians 4:13-18 NRS)
Dear Friend, how do you handle going to funerals? Is there a ritual you follow in preparing yourself to just show up? Or, do you just avoid going to them anyway? My brothers and sisters and I, went to more funerals than are allowed to federal guidelines about children and funerals. We went very unwillingly but there was no getting out of them. And it seemed the funeral homes were no conduits for joyful experiences either. There were some funeral directors whose last smile had been back in the black and white years. And it didn't help that some looked like they enjoyed their work a little too much. Part of our childish coping game was "And the Oscar goes to..." to the women who cried the loudest and longest, while, for extra points, keeping their eyes open to see who was next in line or who had just come in. Funerals are a part of life and our presence is, in some ways, very necessary. Paul started his ministry with a very urgent Jesus is coming soon message and after a few years, he had to amend that message to address the growing number of Christians murdered for their faith; and this passage is just one example of that devoted Apostle's ministry.
There is a particular kind of quiet that settles over a house after a funeral. The casseroles are in the fridge, the cousins have finally gone home, and you’re left staring at a Tupperware lid that belongs to someone you can’t quite remember. Grief has a way of making the ordinary feel strange.
Paul writes to a church that knows that quiet. Some of the Thessalonian believers have died, and the living are wondering what it means. Were they lost? Left behind? Paul steps in with the tenderness of a friend who refuses to let them walk in the dark. He says he doesn’t want them to be uninformed about those who have died, so that they do not grieve as others do who have no hope.
Notice what he doesn’t say. He doesn’t say, “Don’t grieve.” Grief is love with nowhere to go, and Jesus Himself wept at a tomb. Paul says grieve with hope. Those are two very different ways of standing at a graveside.
Then he lays out the foundation: we believe that Jesus died and rose again, and so, through Jesus, God will bring with Him those who have died. If the resurrection is true for Him, it is the promise for them.
And then Paul gets almost cinematic. The Lord Himself will descend from heaven with a cry of command, with the archangel’s call and with the sound of God’s trumpet. Let’s just pause on that. Most of us can’t get a toddler to come to dinner with a cry of command. Here, the whole creation hears it. The dead in Christ rise first, and then those who are still alive are caught up together with them in the clouds to meet the Lord in the air. Paul adds the sweetest line of all: “and so we will be with the Lord forever.”
Forever. Not a quick visit. No awkward goodbye at the door.
Here’s what I love about how Paul ends. He doesn’t say, “Therefore, go forth and decode the timeline.” He says, “Therefore encourage one another with these words.” This isn’t a puzzle to solve. It’s a comfort to share.
So maybe the question for today is: who around you is carrying a heavy loss? Maybe someone is a year out and everyone else has stopped asking. Maybe they don’t need a theological chart. They may just need you to sit beside them and say, quietly, that this is not the end of the story, because the One who rose is coming back.
Your grief matters to God, and so does your hope. He holds both at the same time, and He invites you to do the same.
PRAYER: Gracious loving God, comfort every grieving heart with the living hope of the resurrection, and make us gentle messengers of that hope to one another, in Christ Jesus’ strong name we pray, amen.
Have a great and blessed day in the Lord! OUR CALL TO ACTION: Today, reach out to someone who is grieving and encourage them with the hope of being with the Lord forever.
I love you and I thank God for you! You matter to God and you matter to me. Winning the world with hope is awesome! Be hopeful and spread it to all!
Pastor Eradio Valverde, Jr.






