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22 Once more Jesus spoke to them in parables, saying: 2 “The kingdom of heaven may be compared to a king who gave a wedding banquet for his son. 3 He sent his slaves to call those who had been invited to the wedding banquet, but they would not come. 4 Again he sent other slaves, saying, ‘Tell those who have been invited: Look, I have prepared my dinner, my oxen and my fat calves have been slaughtered, and everything is ready; come to the wedding banquet.’ 5 But they made light of it and went away, one to his farm, another to his business, 6 while the rest seized his slaves, mistreated them, and killed them. 7 The king was enraged. He sent his troops, destroyed those murderers, and burned their city. 8 Then he said to his slaves, ‘The wedding is ready, but those invited were not worthy. 9 Go therefore into the main streets, and invite everyone you find to the wedding banquet.’ 10 Those slaves went out into the streets and gathered all whom they found, both good and bad, so the wedding hall was filled with guests. 11 “But when the king came in to see the guests, he noticed a man there who was not wearing a wedding robe, 12 and he said to him, ‘Friend, how did you get in here without a wedding robe?’ And he was speechless. 13 Then the king said to the attendants, ‘Bind him hand and foot, and throw him into the outer darkness, where there will be weeping and gnashing of teeth.’ 14 For many are called, but few are chosen.” *(Matthew 22:1-14 NIV)
A most blessed of all Mondays be yours today, dear Friend! I pray this finds you well and blessed and ready for being a blessing to all people this week, especially those who have no one from whom to find a blessing. Ask God and God will show you just who you need to bless! Are you ready?
Nellie and I were bittersweetly blessed this past Saturday. I awoke a little after 4 am to shower, dress, pray, and drive to Corpus Christi to take part in The Rev. Dr. Harold Onwiler's memorial service at St. John's UMC. Nellie, though under the weather, accompanied me. We arrived I thought with plenty of time to enjoy a hearty breakfast and then time to fill up our car so we could return home in time to see our grandson perform in a high school marching band competition at Seguin High School. We enjoyed a too hearty a breakfast and me so proud that I didn't spill a single drop of menudo on my suit, though I would be robed up and my menudo-stained garments would not be visible! The car took me in the direction the church, but I turned around to head to the gas station. My phone rang and I saw it was Rev. Pamela Dykehouse, the DS of the South District, who was also participating at the service to ask where I was. Me, thinking the funeral would start at 10:30 said, "I'm in town and should be there shortly." She politely said the service was at ten and she and Rev. John Cochran were robed and in the Narthex of the church! Gulp! Thankfully it was 9:47 and so I said, "I'm close by and I'll be there in time!" And thank God I was! The service was very thoughtful and moving and all who shared in it blessed my heart. I was also blessed to see sweet and dear friends and collegues from years past. And God was thanked for having shared Harold with us for a season.
Jesus is still in the temple courts, still talking to the chief priests and Pharisees who are still trying to figure out how to arrest Him without causing a riot, and He tells them yet another parable. At this point the religious leaders must be deeply regretting the Tuesday morning decision to challenge His authority, because every conversation since then has produced another parable that is uncomfortably accurate about exactly what they are doing. The parables are piling up and none of them are flattering to the people being addressed. But Jesus, characteristically, keeps going.
The kingdom of heaven, He says, is like a king who prepared a wedding banquet for his son. A wedding banquet in the ancient world was not a three hour event with a buffet and a DJ. It was a multi-day celebration, prepared for months in advance, the social event of the generation for anyone lucky enough to be invited. The king in this parable has gone to extraordinary lengths — the oxen and fattened cattle have been slaughtered, the feast is prepared, the tables are set, the wine is ready — and he sends his servants to call the people who have been invited. And they refuse to come. He sends more servants. They ignore them, go off to their farms and businesses, and some of them seize the servants and kill them. Over a wedding invitation. Which is both a significant escalation and an accurate portrait of what the religious leaders of Jesus's day were doing with the invitation He was extending to them.
The king, understandably, is not pleased. But what he does next is the part of the parable that should make every person in this room sit up a little straighter with either enormous relief or considerable self-examination, depending on where they find themselves in the story. He tells his servants: those who were invited didn't deserve to come. Go to the street corners and invite everyone you can find. And the servants go out and gather everyone they can find — bad and good, Matthew says, and that detail is worth sitting with for a moment. Bad and good. The invitation goes out without a preliminary screening process. The king is not sending his servants to find people who have earned a seat at the table. He's sending them to fill the table, and whoever says yes gets to come.
This is the Pentecost parable told in wedding imagery. When the Spirit was poured out in Jerusalem — on sons and daughters, on old men and young men, on slaves and free people, on everyone who called on the name of the Lord — it was the ultimate street-corner invitation, the moment when the wedding banquet that had been prepared from before the foundation of the world was thrown open to everyone the servants could find. The first guests, the ones who had been invited longest, the ones for whom the feast had originally been planned — many of them were too busy with their farms and their businesses to come. And so the invitation went out wider, to the corners and the margins and the places where people who thought they weren't on anyone's guest list were going about their ordinary days. Come. The feast is ready. There is room at the table.
And then the parable adds a detail that has been the subject of considerable theological debate for twenty centuries — the man without a wedding garment. The king comes in to see the guests and finds a man who is not wearing wedding clothes, and asks him, friend, how did you get in here without wedding clothes? The man is speechless, and the king has him bound and thrown out. This seems, at first glance, almost cruel — the man was invited from the street corner, presumably without time to prepare proper attire, and now he's being ejected for not wearing the right thing? But the ancient context helps here: wedding garments were typically provided by the host. The king gave everyone who came a garment to wear. This man is not wearing his because he chose not to, which means he accepted the invitation while rejecting the provision that came with it. He wanted to be at the feast on his own terms, in his own clothing, by his own merit. And that, it turns out, is not how this particular feast works.
The wedding garment is the righteousness of Christ — the provision that God makes for everyone who comes, the covering that Paul describes when he says we are clothed with Christ. The invitation is free. The garment is free. The feast is free. But you cannot come in your own clothing and expect it to be sufficient, because your own clothing is what you were wearing when the servants found you in the street corner, and it was never designed for this occasion. The grace that opens the door also provides what you need to walk through it.
Many are invited, Jesus says, but few are chosen. This is not a statement about a God who invites generously and then chooses stingily. It is an observation about the human tendency to accept invitations casually, to show up without really showing up, to take a seat at the feast while holding onto our own arrangements. The invitation is as wide as the street corners. The garment is ready for everyone who comes. The only question is whether we will receive both.
PRAYER: Lord, thank You for the invitation that found us in the street corner and the garment that makes us fit for the feast — give us the grace to receive both fully and to come to Your table with our whole selves. This we pray in Christ Jesus' strong name, amen.
Have a great and blessed day in the Lord! OUR CALL TO ACTION: Ask yourself honestly today whether you've been accepting the invitation while holding onto your own clothing — your own merit, your own terms, your own arrangements — and choose to put on the garment the King provides instead.
I love you and I thank God for you! You matter to God, and you matter to me! Share the invitation shared with you with someone who was not aware they were invited!!
Pastor Eradio Valverde, Jr.










